[00:00:00] Chalene Johnson : Okay, I promise we’ll get to the juiciest of the juice in just a moment, but first I feel like I need to give you a little bit of a, a lifer update, what’s been going on in our lives. Obviously, if you listen to the Patreon, you probably know all the ins and outs, but there are some of you who just pop in and out sometimes of the regular podcast.
[00:00:21] Chalene Johnson : I do intentionally try to keep those separate so that if you are a Patreon member, you know, like, that’s where you’re getting, I don’t know, the more personal stuff. But I do appreciate that many of you who listen to the show like to hear like, “Okay, where are you living? What’s the latest?” So I thought I would share a little bit of that with you, ’cause sometimes I show it on my Instagram Stories, and I just wanna give you guys an update too.
[00:00:42] Chalene Johnson : Because obviously, if you listen to the Chalene Show, I assume you’re at least moderately curious. I don’t know. Bottom line, we have moved. Yes, we have. We’re still in Florida. We’re in Miami Beach. We’re in South Beach. We just moved a block down the street from where we were living, because the building that we were in, we were in the penthouse, and the roof above it had a pool.
[00:01:07] Chalene Johnson : They were basically demolishing it , so you couldn’t even live there. It was crazy. It’s not even funny how freaking loud it was. It felt like they were inside my head. But the long and short of it is it wasn’t easy getting out of that lease. It was a nightmare. And I can’t go into too many details here.
[00:01:27] Chalene Johnson : I’ll just leave it at that. But I will say that we are legally out of that lease, and we’ve moved. So we’ve moved down the street a block, and what a blessing in disguise. Holy cow. This place is… I’m so happy. I’m just so happy. It’s… Like, the energy is so good. It’s a much, much, much bigger space. Someone commented on my Instagram Stories.
[00:01:52] Chalene Johnson : They’re like, “Why do you need such a big place?” I’m like, “We don’t, but why do you care?” I mean, if we can afford it, we love hosting people. At the moment, I have guests here, and when these guests leave, I’ll have two days solo, and then w- we have more guests coming to town, some of my girlfriends, and we love hosting.
[00:02:15] Chalene Johnson : There’s not a lot of places… I’m kinda picky. And, you know, here’s the other thing. We’ve worked very hard, and you can’t die with it, so what’s the point? Like, you gotta enjoy the fruits of your labor. People are so judgy. Whatever. Anyways, I love it. It’s very white and it’s very Miami. We will add color, we will add dimension, we will soften it up, we will make it ours.
[00:02:44] Chalene Johnson : It does not have to be done overnight. But at the moment, it’s got these hard floors. They’re white, polished marble. Perfection for roller skating. It is my own personal Xanadu. I’m not kidding. And I’ve been roller skating like crazy inside. It has this huge open room that’s like, I don’t know, 2,000 square feet just open, no furniture because it hasn’t arrived yet, and these beautiful pristine marble floors.
[00:03:13] Chalene Johnson : So of course I’m roller skating on them. And I had a bunch of people say, like, “Aren’t you leaving marks all over that floor?” Come on. Do you really think I would be roller skating and leaving marks all over? No. They don’t leave any marks. What am I, like a nine-year-old boy? Can I have a little bit more credit, please, for the love?
[00:03:34] Chalene Johnson : We have had to completely furnish this place, and I’m learning patience. And I’m actually learning to embrace the fact how much I love that that big open room doesn’t have any furniture, and it probably won’t arrive until after Christmas break. We are going to California for Christmas. Southern Cal- we, we still have a place in Southern Cal, so we will be enjoying that, and that’s being remodeled at the moment.
[00:04:01] Chalene Johnson : A lot of you were kind enough to ask how the storms affected that area. We live in… or our house is in Dana Point. We’re Florida residents, but anyways, the house is doing great, but a lot of the homes on the street got completely demolished. And can I just say for a moment, it’s so sad to see the comments that people make when people assume someone is wealthy.
[00:04:26] Chalene Johnson : Like, some of our neighbors, they’re not wealthy, that lived on that street. The homes that were demolished, many of them were, like, little tiny cottages that had been in the family for decades and decades and decades, like, handed down from the grandparents to the parents to the siblings and shared by, you know, multiple family members, and it was their special, special place in the summer.
[00:04:49] Chalene Johnson : And because those homes were on the ocean, I was looking at video footage or whatever you call it, like on Instagram, where they’re showing, like, news footage of those homes getting demolished. And in the comments, such losers saying things like, “They deserve it. Who cares? It’s the rich people. They deserve it.”
[00:05:08] Chalene Johnson : Like, what? I remember seeing the same kinds of things when there were the Malibu fires, people literally saying, “Those are evil, wealthy people, and that’s what they get for building in that area. They deserve it.” That is just so dehumanizing. Because they have money? Actually, because you assume they have money.
[00:05:29] Chalene Johnson : Like, someone sees a beautiful home or a home built in a certain area or people who you assume have a certain level of wealth, without knowing anything about them or how they earned their money or what they’ve already survived or who they’ve taken care of or any of those things. I mean, even if someone had inherited all of their wealth, how is it okay to say that they deserve devastation?
[00:05:59] Chalene Johnson : I mean, obviously s- a lot of that is resentment, it’s envy, it’s anger, it’s about inequality, which I understand. A lot of times people will say, “Oh, well, they can afford to rebuild,” like, as if that gives people permission or, like, it’s okay for them to suffer. It’s very strange. It’s a very telling state of affairs in the United States, where I think, for whatever reason, people believe there are the haves and the have-nots, and there’s supposed to be this anger towards whatever it is you are not.
[00:06:34] Chalene Johnson : But even if someone can afford to rebuild a family home, they can’t replace their sense of safety. They can’t replace family photos, pets, things that they lost that they’ll never get back. It, it just– It’s very much a scarcity mindset. It’s almost like this belief that people who have wealth must be bad It’s a very limiting belief.
[00:06:57] Chalene Johnson : People don’t realize the opposite would never happen. We would never say, “Ugh, look at those people. They’re living in a trailer. They’re good for nothing. They deserve the devastation.” And we would never tolerate that because we expect empathy, we expect understanding. And I think you can criticize unfair systems and you can also…
[00:07:19] Chalene Johnson : You know, you can talk about privilege without celebrating people’s devastation. Not a fan. How did I get on that tangent? Oh, yeah, I was talking about the move, talking about our house in California. Speaking of the move, dude, it is exhausting. My back hurts so bad. I’ve skipped so many workouts, which then puts me in a bad mood.
[00:07:38] Chalene Johnson : So bad mood with a bad back and a lot of echo in the house, and just Amazon package after Amazon package. Like, I don’t understand. Every time we move, where did our broom go? Where did our dustpan go? Why am I buying new flatware? Where did all of our cups go? Like, I just have to remind myself it doesn’t all have to be done at once.
[00:08:01] Chalene Johnson : I can just chill. I don’t have to furnish every room. I don’t have to empty every box. Simmer down, Chalene. Go to bed. You can do a little bit each day. It’s hard for me, though. It really is. Anybody? Like, I just… I can’t get to the work I need to get to until I’ve fully nested. I want things put away and I wanna know what is in this box.
[00:08:24] Chalene Johnson : What is in this box? I want it emptied. I remember as a kid, have you done this, where, like, you move and you’ve got this, like, these group of boxes that you move to your new house, and then you move again and you, you still have that same group of boxes that never get opened. What are in those boxes? I want them opened now.