[00:05:06] Chalene Johnson : It’s about the size of a credit card. You can keep it in your makeup bag, and let me just tell you, your tweezers are gonna be so sharp, and so, too, will be your rogue hair tweezing skills. Okay, you’re welcome. That’s my hack of the day. I wanna start off by addressing a decision that I’ve made. Since I started covering more pop cultures on the show, more pop culture topics, the things that I think naturally are important for women in our age group, some of you are younger, some of you are older, I’ve also kind of expanded that to just regular pop culture things, not just things that pertain to hormones or things that only affect women.
[00:05:48] Chalene Johnson : And that also has meant I’ve covered some true crime, and obviously true crime is very pervasive in culture. I’ve always personally consumed it. I like listening to true crime podcasts, and for the most part, I guess I’m just not affected by it the way a lot of other people are. Like, Brett hates watching any documentary where there’s, like, a murder or bad things happen to people.
[00:06:13] Chalene Johnson : He’s like, “Why do you like watching this stuff?” It’s not that I like watching it, I just… I think I probably don’t have the same reaction other people do. And so my reaction to how it impacts me- Isn’t always helpful or meaningful when I’m trying to decide what’s appropriate to talk about here on the show.
[00:06:35] Chalene Johnson : So recently, there’ve been a few stories that I’m like, “Okay, well, this is kind of interesting. It’s interesting to me, so maybe I should cover it.” But to be perfectly honest, there’s a couple of things I’ve talked about recently on the show that in retrospect I probably shouldn’t have covered them, because they just don’t fit.
[00:06:55] Chalene Johnson : They’re fascinating, sure, but I don’t think that’s enough for me to cover them. Even if there was some value in it, I’m still not sure if covering them outweighs the potential negative impact that I might be giving to a particular story or a piece of a story. So anyways, it’s been kind of bugging me, and I haven’t been able to wrap my head around it completely.
[00:07:20] Chalene Johnson : I just think in the world it’s already so hard to escape negativity, doom and gloom, and all the things that are so divisive and just really gross. Evil things when it comes to content that we consume, there’s a lot of it, so much so that I think a lot of what is shown to us is literally designed to make us angry, to divide us, I don’t know, to make us afraid.
[00:07:48] Chalene Johnson : Those kinds of emotions, all of these social media platforms, they know it keeps us watching, even the news. And that’s one of the reasons why I don’t cover politics. It’s not because politics aren’t important. I know they are. It’s because there’s already an endless supply of political content, and th- that type of content in particular, I just run from it.
[00:08:09] Chalene Johnson : I hate that I n- I just know it’s gonna make people feel terrible, and you’re not gonna change people’s minds. So The Chalene Show has always been a place where you could escape it. And I’ve always tried to have the content that I cover here be something where you walk away from it going like, “Okay, well I learned something,” or, “I was entertained,” or, “It was useful.”
[00:08:29] Chalene Johnson : And sometimes, yeah, sometimes we’ve gotta cover things that are deep and dark, but I’ve just been trying to figure out, like, how do I decide what’s appropriate to cover if it’s in pop culture, right? ‘Cause I don’t wanna ignore important conversations or cases, especially when I think covering them sometimes helps us to, like, recognize warning signs, or I will cover them because I think it’s important that we question misinformation.
[00:08:58] Chalene Johnson : So in the Lindsey Clancy case, I was not gonna cover that case at all until I saw how much misinformation was out there and why people were becoming so divided and why people who I care about very much were telling me things that were happening in this case that actually hadn’t happened in this case.
[00:09:18] Chalene Johnson : And then I would dig further to find out, like, where they’re getting their sources, and they were like, “Oh, this TikTok creator.” So there was this phenomenon that I felt like I needed to address. We all need that sometimes. There’s a lot of things I will cover because there’s, like, a mental health side of it Or it’s just something that’s generally happening in our culture.
[00:09:38] Chalene Johnson : Again, I covered some of what happened in the Jeffrey Epstein case, but I covered it from a different perspective. As I’ve said, I wanna be your source where you’re like, “Oh, cool. I don’t have to watch every story on the news. Shaleen’s gonna tell me the things that, at a top level, I might need to be aware of.”
[00:09:59] Chalene Johnson : However, I don’t think because I find something interesting, that’s a good enough reason to talk about on the show. Or even when I say interesting, like, it might be fascinating, but it might be morbidly fascinating. And this is a relatively new territory for me, and I realize I just need to establish kind of a criteria because I’ve gotten messages from quite a few of you who have said, like, “Hey, I don’t like that kind of topic.”
[00:10:25] Chalene Johnson : And not a lot of you, but a few have said, like, “You know, I just like to skip that stuff.” And enough so that I’m thinking to myself, “Okay, should this be covered?” I’ve always said that you are my co-creator for this podcast. I mean, if you’re not interested in what I’m talking about, if what I’m talking about you need to skip over it, then I don’t have an audience.
[00:10:50] Chalene Johnson : I don’t have a show. If I don’t have a show, I don’t have a community to serve, right? And that’s my purpose. Especially with a few of the cases I’ve covered in the last couple of weeks, there were moments when I got to the end of the show and I was really, like, going, “Okay, how can I make this light? What can I say to make people laugh?”
[00:11:11] Chalene Johnson : Like, we need a way to cleanse the palate because that was so heavy, and that’s not good. Then, of course, I was getting some of your messages saying, like, uh, “I really don’t like hearing about this kind of topic,” or, “I come to your show because you make me laugh,” or you, you know, “keep me informed.” Yeah, I’ve been taking that seriously and, and also trying to decide for myself, “Okay, how do I create a measure by which to determine what makes sense for the show?”
[00:11:38] Chalene Johnson : And here’s where I’ve landed. Of course, this could change, but I wanna run this by you. I’m not gonna eliminate true crime or things that are happening in pop culture that might be kind of disturbing. But from this point forward, and before I cover one, I wanna make sure it will pass specific tests in order to say, “Okay, this deserves to be covered.”
[00:12:03] Chalene Johnson : First, I’m gonna ask myself, what’s the purpose? Will discussing this help someone to recognize warning signs? Will it help us to understand some, like, major thing that’s being misunderstood or misconstrued, or it’s only being shown one way and I want to help people avoid group think? I just wanna expose how that might be happening.
[00:12:27] Chalene Johnson : In other words, will this lead to, like, a meaningful moral or cultural conversation? You know what I’m saying? And if the answer is no, it’s just interesting, or no, it’s just kinda fascinating, or no, it’s just kinda morbid, okay, well then it’s not gonna get covered.
[00:12:45] Clip: Allow me to take just a moment to interrupt myself to talk to you about your skin.
[00:12:51] Clip: As we age, one of the
[00:12:52] Chalene Johnson : things at least that I found most frustrating was just looking down at my skin and going like, “What happened? What is going on?” You know, as we start to lose collagen and estrogen, your skin texture and the way that it holds moisture, it completely changes. I was drenching myself in lotions and just not seeing a difference.
[00:13:11] Chalene Johnson : And then I had a friend recommend a product called OneSkin. You’ve heard me talk about it before. This stuff makes a huge difference, so if that’s something you’re struggling with, just skin that feels really dry or crepey, trust me when I say you wanna try OneSkin. I love their full body lotion. It just goes on so nicely.
[00:13:29] Chalene Johnson : It’s light. There’s no fragrance. There’s no toxic ingredients. That’s very, very important. It works wonderfully for sensitive skin. It’s been dermatologist tested, and the stuff is just amazing. It’s loaded with peptides, so you’re just gonna feel a difference. Trust me when I say this. But here’s the key.
[00:13:46] Chalene Johnson : This is my recommendation. This is girlfriend to girlfriend. Get the SPF tinted moisturizer for your face. It is amazing. I’ve tried a bunch of tinted SPFs, and I didn’t feel like they were tinted. Do you know what I mean? Like, this literally kinda smooths out your complexion. You don’t even need to wear makeup, I swear.
[00:14:04] Chalene Johnson : I’m saying that, then you know it’s really good. I also love their full body SPF, which is really important if you’re out walking in the sun, or even if you’re just exposed in the snow. You’re still getting exposed to sun, and you wanna make sure that your face stays nice and young. You don’t want age spots or sunspots, and OneSkin has amazing products.
[00:14:23] Chalene Johnson : Because they are a show sponsor, you get a nice little discount. Go to cheline.com/SPF. It’s also a wonderful way to support the show, and I really appreciate that. Again, it’s cheline.com/SPF. But you can find all of their products from that link. Check it out The next question I’m gonna ask myself is, is there something I can contribute?
[00:14:45] Chalene Johnson : ‘Cause if I’m just telling you about a horrific house of horrors just discovered in the Midwest, I’m not contributing in any way. I’m just, I’m just sharing more evil stories with you, and that, that doesn’t help you. So I need to ask questions like Is there something people aren’t thinking about? Is there an angle others haven’t considered?
[00:15:09] Chalene Johnson : Am I connecting this individual case to a larger issue that in some way could help my community? Because if I’m just simply repeating a disgusting, horrible story that you could hear anywhere, it just doesn’t belong on The Chalene Show. That’s what I’m thinking. And then lastly, can I discuss this without, in a way that doesn’t amplify the worst parts of it, like the most disturbing parts?
[00:15:36] Chalene Johnson : And I like to think that I’ve done a decent job of that in a few examples, but there’s also places where it’s almost unavoidable to not mention the most horrible graphic parts. And so I’m just going to, in the future, I don’t need to include those details. Perfect example is a case that I was considering telling you about today.
[00:15:59] Chalene Johnson : It involves another mom and her child. Some are alleging that it might be, I don’t wanna say inspired by, but certainly you’re gonna draw some parallels between this new story and the Lindsay Clancy case. As I was reading through it, I’m like, “I just don’t know what the value is. What is it I want my audience to know?”
[00:16:24] Chalene Johnson : And I guess what I would want you to know, I don’t need to give you the details, because sometimes the details teach other people how to do things, or it inspires them in a weird, horrible, gruesome way. That’s not good in my opinion. So I can tell you generally that there have been at least one other case last week where this mom was known to have been very involved in discussing Lindsay Clancy and her particular case, was very empathetic towards what she was going through, and now some horrible things have happened to one of her children.
[00:17:08] Chalene Johnson : And I don’t need to give you gruesome details. I can just say I think we have a real problem in our country the way that we sensationalize some of the most horrific crime cases. When they are overly exposed and we’re making documentaries about them and everyone on every single social media platform is weighing in on it and discussing details, it becomes pervasive, and it’s all we’re thinking about, and, and that’s just not good.
[00:17:39] Chalene Johnson : So that’s what I wanna share with you, and I also wanna say it’s also one of the reasons why I want to avoid talking about some of these things, because I don’t think the value outweighs the potential harm So I’m going to ask myself in the future, could this conversation genuinely educate or protect people in some way, or could I potentially be normalizing something so horrific, giving maybe a perpetrator more attention, or adding to this constant stream of darkness without offering anything constructive?
[00:18:19] Chalene Johnson : I’m just gonna give myself a little bit more time to think through this, but I’d love to get your feedback. It’s always helpful. If you want all the specific details, there are podcasts that that’s what they cover. That’s not what I want the show to ever be anyways. So if it passes those standards, if I can find a way that I really do think that there’s something to be learned from covering it in a respectful way, then I will.
[00:18:47] Chalene Johnson : Otherwise, I won’t. And if you haven’t noticed already, we’ve started adding time codes to our show description, so whether there’s a topic that you might want to just skip or something you wanna skip forward to, you can now find that very quickly. Let’s talk about your brain, the estrogen study that no one is really talking about.